failing

It is said that failure is the step to success. But that is true only if you are good at failing! As in only if you can take your failure objectively and not judge yourself based on it. But what if you have been judged on your failures all your life? What of the failure then? What if you have been judges despite your failures! Turning non failures into failures so that you feel like a failure. Then its difficult isnt it. But nonetheless I have learnt to be good at failing. I did it. Myself. Nobody taught me. And I will bounce. Alas I am good at failing.